This past week has been a hard one for me. On Monday, Aug. 22nd one of my dearest friends, Joyce Bell passed away. Dick and Joyce were in our ward here, but moved away around 2009. Dick retired and they sold their home and served a mission in the Marshall Islands. After their mission they moved to Victor, Idaho. A few years later they built a home in St. George, Utah. They also served a mission in Tallahassee, Florida & returned home a little over a year ago.
When Joyce served as our RS President I was one of her counselors. When she moved, she was one of the few friends I've stayed in touch with. We would call each other quite often and catch up on what each of our children were doing. She was one who would always get excited for me over small or big things. She gave both of my daughters bridal showers, attended Lindsey's wedding and reception in Idaho. When Jacob served his mission in St. George she had him over to eat and baked him food to put in the freezer. She was beautiful inside and out and I NEVER remember having one negative thought about her! She was a TRUE friend and it breaks my heart to think I won't be able to talk to her anymore.
She had a heart valve replaced about two weeks ago. She called me the day she got home from the hospital and was doing great. I was watching Lindsey's boys when she called so we didn't talk long, but told her I'd call her the next week. Her husband texted me Monday evening and said to pray for Joyce as she was in the ER and had blood clots in her lungs. That was at 4:30. She passed away between 5:00-6:00.
I have to say something about her husband Dick. They just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. I don't think I've ever met a husband who adored his wife more than Dick. He absolutely thought she was the BEST thing ever!! I know he is going to have a really hard time.
She was born and raised in Rexburg, Idaho and wanted to be buried next to her parents.
Her funeral was in Rexburg on Saturday and Russ and I were able to attend. I'm so glad I went! I'm still having a really hard time, but know in time it will get better. I loved her like one of my own sisters and will miss her greatly!! She was such an example to all who knew her.
When she turned 60 I threw her a surprise birthday party at the lake house.
Lindsey's reception holding Matsen.
When we went to Orlando a year ago November they were on their mission and we were able to go out to breakfast with them.
We just saw them again in June when they were up in Seattle watching their grandkids for 2 weeks. So glad we made the trip up to see them:) Life is precious.
She was truly one of the sweetest and most genuine people on this earth! She will be missed by all that knew her! I've been praying that you'll feel comfort in this time of grief. Glad I could attend the funeral with you and hear more about her life. Love you!
ReplyDeleteLife is precious. So sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteJoyce was such a special lady and greatly loved. I know this is especially rough on everyone so close to her. What a blessing good friends are. Glad you could attend her funeral. Wish I could give you a big hug! Love, Kristy
ReplyDeleteJoyce was such a special lady and greatly loved. I know this is especially rough on everyone so close to her. What a blessing good friends are. Glad you could attend her funeral. Wish I could give you a big hug! Love, Kristy
ReplyDeleteThis was a very sad post. She sounds like such a special person. She must have been needed early in the Spirit World. Dear friends aren't replaceable. I went through this when my friend Marjorie died. She was only 53 years old. She left 7 children -- only one married and the youngest in Kindergarten.
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